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Sometimes Life Shakes You Awake

That was the longest two minutes of my life.

When the shaking finally stopped, I was almost more frightened than I had been during the earthquake itself. I stood there, trying to process what had just happened. I knew there could be aftershocks, but I had no idea what I was supposed to do next.

The electricity was out. I had no internet. And outside, my pueblo was strangely silent.

Still.

Too still.

I needed shoes, so I entered the Villa. The scene inside was the first indication of just how violent the shaking had been. Paintings were scattered across the floor. The kitchen glasses had shattered, leaving shards of glass everywhere. I went upstairs, found my shoes, and began checking every floor of the house.

Things had fallen everywhere.

In my office, picture frames had crashed to the floor, along with more broken glass. I put the dogs out on the patio and closed the doors leading outside. Then I found a broom and began sweeping.

It felt absurdly ordinary.

There I was, standing in the aftermath of an earthquake, sweeping broken glass off the floor because I was worried my dogs might cut their paws.

Then I checked the Cristal House cabin. Shattered windows. More glass.

The wooden Adventura Treehouse cabin was still standing, although items had fallen onto the bed and floor. The suspended bridge needed bolts because the vertical tubes were hanging at an odd angle. The stables looked fine, but one end of the roof sagged.

At least everything was still standing.

My front gate was locked, and Yesid, my employee, had arrived almost immediately. But I was in shock. I hadn’t even thought to unlock the gate.

He could see from outside that my house was still standing. He could see Cristal House, too. He knew I was alright.

I wanted to go out and find out what was happening, but another thought stopped me. What if I got stuck on the road? What if trees had fallen? What if the road was blocked?

So I stayed. And I waited. With no electricity and no internet, I had no idea how bad the earthquake actually was. I had no way of knowing what was happening beyond my little corner of the pueblo.

I didn’t know that Colombia had made news around the world. I had no idea many people were trying to contact me. I didn’t know yet how badly Cali and other parts of Colombia had been affected. I would find out later. All I could do was wait and hope the electricity would return and, with that, my internet.

Those two minutes turned into a long day without information. I didn’t go to my neighbors because my knee, which needed surgery, kept me from walking long distances. I didn’t want to drive anywhere because I didn’t know the road conditions.

My family and friends knew more than I did! I was desperate to know what was going on.

Yesid came by after lunch and gave me a lot of information. He had a radio and was listening to earthquake notices. I finally found out it was a magnitude 7.4, and at my Villa it lasted over 2 minutes. At the time, it felt like an eternity. I now knew many people were worried about me. I could do nothing but wait.

I had damage, but my Villa and cabins were still standing. I realized how blessed I was to have made it through such a strong Earthquake with repairable damage, and, most importantly, to be okay.

When the electricity returned, my phone was blowing up with messages. I answered everyone I could. I told them I was alive with only minor damage at the Villa.

But I wasn’t fine. I was traumatized, and it has only gotten worse since the Earthquake happened. I started thinking about the year I’ve had and the weather events that had occurred.

I had damage from the first two storms, and now I have more damage. My neighbor’s trees fell on my fence, and they haven’t fixed it even though it is their fault. I have lost a friendship over that. I know that if I had damaged someone’s property, I would take care of it.

Then the earthquake caused more damage to what had already been repaired from those first two storms. It also damaged my bridge and the roof of my stables. I need to file another property damage claim with my insurance.

Many of you have written to me because you saw my posts on my social media sites where I put my place up for sale. The damage, the shortage of good workers, and being alone when these weather events hit helped me decide to downsize.

I want to thank each and every one of you who have contacted me. I am the same old me. I know this place is unique and beautiful. I have created a paradise, and I am very proud of that. A wonderful couple from Colombia is taking care of my listing.

The story of how I found them makes me sure they are the perfect team for my needs. I knew that night after the Earthquake, I wanted to sell. I spoke with my cousin, an excellent realtor in West Palm Beach, and she found this couple for me in one day. Not only did she find them, but when she spoke to them, they were at the airport on the way to Cali, Colombia! I met with them the 4 days after the Earthquake.

I believe in manifestation: it happens when you want something and work to make it happen. When those first storms hit at the beginning of the year, it occurred to me that I should sell. It has been on my mind all year.

So now, I have started the process. I don’t need to do much but let my realtors take over. I have done all the work in the last 15 years. My place is well-known; I believe it will sell itself.

I know that selling might not happen fast, although from all the people contacting me, you would think I had already sold my place. In Colombia, nothing happens quickly. In the meantime, I have made a few changes to my business.

I am now offering long-term stays here. If you or anyone you know wants to come visit, I have a very affordable monthly stay PDF with my rates in Colombian pesos. You can stay in Colombia up to six months without a Visa.

If you enjoy your time here, there are many ways to get a Visa, especially a pension Visa. I would love to host a few senior women in my Villa and make a small community, but anyone is welcome. If you know anyone looking for a change, it would be a perfect place to start. After all, I’ve made changes in my life several times. It has always worked out well for me.

I survived the earthquake.

I survived everything that came before it.

And now I am ready to see what comes next.

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One Year Ago

Last year in October, I was putting in place all the things needed to start my Glamping cabanas. I was in the beginning phase of a new thought process about my business. I could never have imagined the success of my creation. It would take off from day one of the openings of Cristal House Glamping. It would be successful with time, energy, advertisement, and word of mouth. Word of mouth was all I needed to bring me enough income to build my next glamping cabana, Aventura Treehouse Glamping. As I have said in my previous blogs, I wanted to share my beautiful place filled with nature. Many of us had businesses slowly recovering from the Covid debacle, and ideas were at the forefront of my mind to begin again. It is much too beautiful here in Colombia at Glamping at Villa Migelita Ecolodge to enjoy alone.

I appreciate everyone visiting my Hotel and Glamping cabanas. However, I must give a shout-out to my Colombian visitors. So many different walks of life: creative people, doctors, engineers, veterinarians, retirees, lovers, LGBTIQ+ entrepreneurs, life coaches, designers, musicians, and more have one thing in common: their love of nature, especially hummingbirds. I hear many personal tales that they share with me. I even ran into one of my past guests while shopping one day, and he told me he was asking his girlfriend to marry him soon. Here are some of my stories:
Recently I had a Colombian-American visiting from the USA, and we became great friends. He invited my son and me to a party at his family’s house the next day. Then there was the guy who visited with his girlfriend who helped me when another guest locked a bathroom door that didn’t have a key. He used a ladder, climbed through a little window, and dropped into the bathroom to unlock the door. I laugh and think it is all in a day’s work.
Or the flute-playing Colombian Yoga Instructor came with his girlfriend from the Netherland Antilles. They decided to take the little boat out at night and almost sank it! The woman was 6’3″ and fell into the lake when entering my tiny canoe. While filling hummingbird feeders the following day, I saw the boat immersed in water. When asked, they told me of their mishap. They fixed the dinghy, bailed the water out, and shared other experiences with me. It turns out the woman is quite an accident-prone person. They had me in stitches with stories. When anyone arrives, I tell them they can use the boat during the day only.
The family that came after their beloved daughter and sister had just passed is especially dear to me. As a mother of a deceased child, I knew their pain. We went on a two-hour hike along the nearby river the next day. They stood under the flow of the small waterfall that was nearby. This family took in every moment, including stopping in small natural pools to breathe the fresh air and live in the moment. I still think of them and hope they are healing from their loss.
The couple with the antique Volkswagon Beetle that I felt I knew my entire life upon greeting them. Their Beetle was the same color as my cousin’s one when I was a young girl. The memories it brought back were so wonderful.
The guy who visited with three of his best friends will always be in my heart. He took a picture of himself with the angel wings painted on my Villa in memory of my daughter Misha. He used that photo as a profile picture for many months on Instagram. I explained that everyone who shares a picture of themselves with the wings also shares her memory with others. I loved seeing that.
I know all young people love tattoos worldwide. The tattoo artist with thousands of followers on Instagram that visited was so much fun. He had a special bond with my dog Cash. He was my first social media influencer, he shared my place in his stories, and I got many followers.
The older couple celebrating a birthday hiked more than any of the young ones! They were up early, walking, and enjoying their time together. They were around my age, and sharing stories with them was excellent. Many Colombians live in the city, and the lack of noise here is nirvana to them. I often get repeat customers.

My most recent visitors are from Germany and came on bikes. They started cycling in Ecuador, crossed the border into Colombia three weeks ago, and have plans to cycle through my adopted country. They didn’t speak Spanish, only English, and German.
I had a couple visiting from Spain that got engaged while staying here. I can’t wait to see photos of their wedding!
I loved the couple who visited from Los Angeles during Superbowl weekend! One was a video editor who worked on the famous Suits with Meghan Markle; her partner was a structural engineer. We spent the Superbowl playing a card game and cheering on the halftime show. They were the same age as my daughter Misha and knew all the songs during the halftime show. Now they are engaged! I love following their Instagram! Congratulations to Rhoda and Sarah; I wish you a lifetime of happiness!
The mother and son guests who visited early at Cristal House Glamping were wonderful. He is a choreographer in Munich and a native Colombian who brought his mother to my nature retreat.
My guests who came from Aruba were so much fun! My son met his girlfriend while she was visiting Glamping at Villa Migelita Ecolodge. I met all of her family who lives here in Colombia near me in the Valle del Cauca.
My dear friends Carolyn and Cindy visited when we had strong Earthquake tremors. My other friend Iryna was also visiting and staying at Aventura Treehouse Glamping. We all ran outside, as were my instructions for an Earthquake, and met up with each other. My son checked out all of the property; fortunately, there was no damage. That is a memory for all of us to remember when we have a glass of wine!

All of my guests love my dogs. Cash and Kira are a common bond. Cash would be an excellent therapy dog. He loves to put his massive head in their laps for affection. I often look out in my social area and see guests sitting and chatting, Cash at their feet, attentive to their needs. Kira is the same; she loves the Treehouse because she can climb the bridge and sit as a guard at the top. She crosses the little bridge to the bottom area and sits with the guests who are relaxing in the hammocks. The dogs sound and look intimidating, but everyone is in love with them shortly after meeting them. They give all the love they can to every customer. I even had one couple who asked me what breed they were because he had an adopted dog precisely like Cash. He showed me a photo, and he has a Dogo Argentino also! He had no idea, but his Dogo was as sweet as Cash and had one black eye like a pirate. Some of you wonder if I have had any awful experiences with guests. I have had two times where I was uncomfortable. The first was an Airbnb guest who snuck in a child without permission. He was also a host, so that made it even worse. He never paid for her, and I had to report him to Airbnb. I got paid for the extra charge and a mark against his own business. Another booking through Airbnb was for a European couple that made a reservation two months in advance. They ignored the rules in my Airbnb profile and were rude. They have been my only lousy review, and I responded by stating, please read my rules and suggestions in the book I have on my site. When anyone reads this review, they will go to the little book I have on my site that gives everyone good information about my Glamping place. We are not a city hotel, and people who want more freedom and nearby restaurants should not book my place. In all, I have had wonderful experiences with everyone.

Now that I have established my business, many people write me on my social media sites for business reasons. I have a high ranking on Google, which keeps me too busy. When I worked as a flight attendant, I rarely worked more than three days a week. In the first months of this year, I was busy on the weekends but not during the week; I loved that. It was extra money, but I had my free time, also. Slowly that changed, and now I am lucky to have two nights without people here at my nature retreat. I have many requests for people who send their parents here as gifts or want a voucher to give to loved ones. I have a hotel group starting to help me organize my business with a calendar and bookings. I get offers for capital to improve and grow my Glamping place, but for now, I am happy to stay small and focused on what I have. It is not easy to find employees when you live so high in the mountains as I do. Expanding the business could happen in the future when my son wants to give more of his time.
I am focused on enjoying myself and nature with all the lovely visiting people.